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So this is how it is.
So I ask my wife tonight "honny, wanna watch lost"
She says "oh yeah!"
Separate conversation
I say"wanna ....."
She says "Well I guess so"
She says "oh yeah!"
Separate conversation
I say"wanna ....."
She says "Well I guess so"
we don't like to be asked if we want to have sex. we want our man to "put us in the mood". not by talking about it, but by actually initiating it. give her a back or foot rub and then start softly kissing her back or ankles. or whatever it is that you do to get things going. i don't want to start talking too much about it otherwise i feel like i'm describing a porno or something. :P
that should work. unless she's in an especially bad mood or something is really bothering her, this will usually always work.
and she can't tell you this herself otherwise it doesn't mean anything. it would seem fake. just like we don't want to tell our men what to do to be romantic. for it to actually be romantic, they have to come up with it themselves.
does that make sense?
I just thought it was a funny comparison.
I do like a woman's perspective as well.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. Your a sister in the Lord.
Thanks
i was just messin with you! :P
my "advice" is from a woman's perspective. your "comparison" is how a man sees the situation.
i know you think very highly of your wife. that was never a question in my mind. ;)
i was tryin to make a joke with that last comment but i see that i have failed. *goes off and hides in a dark corner*
:P
And because I didn't want you to think I was some big jerk!
it's called For Men Only
and you can read about it here:
http://www.4-womenonly.com/BooksStu
it's a very quick read. took me less than a day to finish... even though it's suppose to be for men only. :P
i learned a great deal of really wonderful information from those two resources.
but there's another one too called For Women Only that your wife might be interested in. and that can be found here:
http://www.4-womenonly.com/BooksStu
I really loved ''wild at heart'' by john elderidge. Its the only book besides the bible I have read more then 2 times. Its about a man's heart. He and his wife wrote '' captivated'' for woman. Great books.
this is my last recommendation on the topic of relationships.
every year, the single's ministry at my church does a study that lasts several weeks. they go through the dvd series taught by this guy, tommy nelson. i used to have the dvd's myself but i'm a little frustrated cuz i dont know what happened to them.
it's kinda pricey but he delves into all the topics that i think you'd be interested in, including sex.
there's a short video on that webpage that shows pieces of it.